Sunan At-Tirmidhi
Hadith #1004
Yahya bin Abdur-Rahman narrated from Ibn Umar that:The Prophet said: ""The deceased is punished for the crying of his family over him."" So, Aishah said: ""May Allah have mercy upon him. He has not lied, but he is mistaken. It is only that the Messenger of Allah said about a Jewish man who died: 'The deceased is being punished and his family is crying over him