Sunan An-Nasa'i

It was narrated from Yazid bin Aws, that:Abu Musa said he fell unconscious and an Umm Walad of his wept. When he woke up, he asked her: ""Have you not heard what the Messenger of Allah said?"" She said: ""He said: 'He is not one of us who raises his voice in lamentation, shaves his head, or rends his garments