Sunan An-Nasa'i
Hadith #1852
It was narrated from Anas that:when the Messenger of Allah accepted the women's oath of allegiance, he accepted their pledge that they would not wail (over the death). They said: ""O Messenger of Allah, there are women who helped us to mourn during the Jahiliyyah should we help them to mourn?"" The Messenger of Allah said: ""There is no helping to mourn in Islam