Sahih Bukhari

Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:My father died and left seven or nine girls and I married a matron. Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, ""O Jabir! Have you married?"" I said, ""Yes."" He said, ""A virgin or a matron?"" I replied, ""A matron."" he said, ""Why not a virgin, so that you might play with her and she with you, and you might amuse her and she amuse you."" I said, "" `Abdullah (my father) died and left girls, and I dislike to marry a girl like them, so I married a lady (matron) so that she may look after them."" On that he said, ""May Allah bless you,"" or ""That is good