Sahih Bukhari

Narrated Jabir bin `Abdullah:When I got married, Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said to me, ""What type of lady have you married?"" I replied, ""I have married a matron' He said, ""Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?"" Jabir also said: Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, ""Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?